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Making out
Hi! So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months (both juniors in HS). We are both each other's first boyfriend/girlfriend. Things are pretty good. We get along well and we always have fun, but the physical aspect of our relationship is lacking. It took him 4 1/2 months to kiss me and now I'm ready for a little more (like making out or something) but he hasn't taken any initiative. I don't know what to do. Like he's affectionate in front of our friends (always makes a point to be by me, holds my hand, has his arm around me, ect). But when we are alone he doesn't even try anything. Is there something wrong with me? He always says how beautiful I am and stuff but he never tries anything. What should I do?? SOS
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You're his first girlfriend, so he's naturally nervous. Making a move on your first significant other is a scary thing to do, because you don't know exactly what you're doing. I don't think it has anything to do with being unattractive. In fact, his attraction to you probably makes him even more nervous about taking initiative.
I would keep him informed about what you're ok with. Let him know that you're open to doing more. If you're up to it, consider making the move yourself.
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