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I'm that girl who said everyone is beautiful and I am not. I'm writing back
I feel that I'm ugly because most of my life,especially through elementary school,everyone called me ugly,freak,disgusting and what not. I do take care of myself but I feel that it doesn't help. And it wasn't just them,whenever I'd pursue a guy he'd reject me,saying I'm ugly and fat. And on the rare ocassions I got a boyfriend he would either cheat or neglect me. Like I said,I am as fashionable as I can be with my current financial status,I work out,but it just doesn't make me prettier to anyone. That friend of mine married yesterday. For example she is too thin and malnutritioned,when she dresses up it's a circus,but guys love her. Her husband looked at her as if she was a goddess. And I am simply invisible, I just can't find a good guy.
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stop feeling like you ugly, seriously stop right now, I feel you giving yourself a hard time for nothing, understand you have to work with what you got, like you say you are financially stable, try living your life for yourself, the first thing first love yourself first, take your self on a cruise, start doing things for yourself and live life to the fullest, God made a person for each of us, stop being so consume with how you look, do something about it, a man will wont you but you need to stop putting yourself down and thinking you so ugly, because some of the sexiest and the most handsome people in the world are sometime the very ones that will break your heart, like I say focus on your inner self and relax, pray and trust in God that a man will find you the most desirable person , once he come along all the other men going to want to pursue you too, but you tell them to back off, because they didn't want to be with you when you was single so don't be trying to be interested in you while you with that special guy, sometime moving to another region or to another part of the US you will find that guys have a different taste in the flavor of what kind of woman they are attracted too, you will be surprise what you will find, there are men who date big women try going to BBW websites or for full figure women, I'm full figure and really I don't have a problem getting a date. I accept that I am a queen and I rule my own universe, you have to walk like you own the world and take control of your life and how you look at things around you if a man don't want you, OH well that's his loss, trying doing new things with your skin, if you have clear skin use proactive to make it better, try a new hair style , do some sexy arches for your eyebrow, change your hair color, drink more water , buy color contacts to enhance the color of your eyes, work on making your skin sexier take a shower in seaweed soap it will make your body feel like silk. Sometime the color of your lipstick will bring out the best features in your smile, try using Crest 3D products to make your teeth super white, go to a Mary Kay consultant or if you wear glasses change the frame to a sexier style frame, do a website for women that feel unbeautiful, Cal your website Unbeautiful and design a blog, and you will find you not the only one feeling like you, you not alone there are so many women out there that feel the same way as you, you have the power and you hold the key to get more women involved, Because you don't need to be feeling like you do, stop putting yourself down, like I say looking pretty isn't everything , brains and power is sexier. SO start doing something about it.
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