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tricky situation!
Hi boogeylady,I think you know the background of my problem! He texted me and said that things with him and my Best friend are really bad and she doesn't consider us to be her friends anymore and we are just illusions! I dunno what we did that is so wrong and we are not going to date. It's so complicated right now.! Now what should I do?
Should I get in touch with my best friend?
She would seem very detached!I am not sure if liking someone can be s bad thing! It's always been so cruel for me :(
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Hi sweetie. I'm very sorry to hear of this!!
Your friend is angry and is acting out and sadly is leaving you to choose sides. Her or him. Either choice won't be easy. And you shouldn't jahave to feel to choose. Your friend may be angry because it is a possibility that she is jealous and may like this guy as well.
The guy you like may be unfaised at the root of what is really going on. You didn't mean for any of this happen. And your intentions were honest. Your friend is hurt. So please consider her feelings first. It was best if you had told this man you liked him and that it came straight from you. You have no idea how or what your friend said to him.
Try to talk to talk to your friend. Remember her feelings are first. Let her know first that you are very sorry and didn't mean for this to happen. If possible. Say it in person and buy her something like a hot chocolate or a chocolate bar. Let her know that as friend you love her and take her feelings to heart. But let her know gently that you like this man. Try to take it step by step.
Make sure that your guy is in the clear that you two are serious or starting something. You'd hate for this to happen and the two of you not work out. Best of blessings!!
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