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I'm too scared to talk to a guy
Ok, so at this restaurant I go to, the host is wicked cute. He always sneaks glances at me and stuff. Anyways, I really want to talk to him, but I'm too scared. I haven't talked to him before. I don't know anything about him, and I don't even know if he's too old for me (but he's young, it's not like he's 20s). I just don't know how to go about doing so, especially bc he's at work when I see him.
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teasing in a nice way is a good way to open a very short convo with him.
Since, his glances at you are pretty obvious you could find opportunity to get near him when no one else is in earshot and say something like, "You know, your eyeballs are going to get whiplash from glancing over at me all the time. Just teasing, but I noticed the attraction and I find you cute too but wondering if you are even single." If he says he is, Then ask if he'd like to exchange cell numbers and talk sometime to see if you can spend enough time together to find if there's anything beyond the attraction like friendship and maybe more. Make sure you have your cell# already on a slip of paper with your name and hand it to him, asking him to bring you his when he has a chance.
When you know nothing about and have nothing in common that you know of to talk about, the least awkward way of starting a convo is by latching onto something you have seen or experienced or over heard him saying to someone, patron or co worker.
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