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I keep haveing dreams not the same but all boil down to the same to people
I got a phone bill to my partners phone n there was 100s of messags in 2 days I asked what was goin on both said nothing now I'm dreaming there meeting and it's been goin on a while and there seriouse about each other what can it mean
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I am a bit confused as to what part is dream and what part is reality.
If in real life you saw your partners phone had hundreds of mssg in 2 days , and now you are dreaming about it and in the dreams imagining more than you have real life ways to prove, well these feelings of non peace are coming from your subconscious which runs all your body functions while you sleep, runs your dreams and stores all our feelings and emotions. When we are lacking information or just 'believe' we are lacking information, then our subconscious starts 'theater of the mind' a place where you begin to visualize when awake or dream while asleep all the possible scenerios to your unanswered questions. Ever notice how our imaginations always tend to be on the negative rather than positive side and about more of scary things or our fears than wonderful pleasant or perfectly ordinary non threatening things???
Mine too. Not always cus I am working on it...but it still happens.
If you and the partner are not close enough to share everything with each other, then you will have to understand that there is nothing you can do. If the two of you have broken trust before or haven't been together long enough to build trust between each other, then be patient and don't go stirring up trouble where there may not be any. Time will eventually tell whether its something of concern or not to you, whether there is cheating occuring. Right now, you dont know that due to lack of confirming information. If the courts found all people guilty based on circumstantial evidence such as you have here, without a clear link proving a person is guilty of something, then the prisons would be a lot fuller than they are now and lots of innocent people would be locked up in jail.
Right now the dreams mean nothing. Its just your fears and imagination working things out in dream state.
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