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crazy nd pregnate with his baby
a man i thought i knew is playing games with me and im pregnate with his child he wanted and i moved into a house he dnt want to be there he rather leave and now im pregnate he dnt want to spend no time he tells me we will be together 1 day i call his mom she lie an says he sleep he call when he miss me too many mixed signals tired of crying and being alone
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At this point as has been said your only two options are abortion or having the baby as a single mom.
The unfortunate thing is you can't undo what he did to you and people do not change overnight, actually sometimes not even in a lifetime. There is nothing you can do to make him grow up and become mature and willing to keep whatever promises he made. Change must come from within an individual. Because God gave us all 'free will' the same free will that you have to do what you want, is also the same free will that he has so it means no one, even you...can Make him change. I suppose you were hoping that there was some way to do this and be your 3rd option. Sorry, no third option.
Contact Planned Pregnancy, cus they even handle situations like yours, unplanned ones and changed plans. They can talk to you about both options, carrying the child or having an abortion. If keeping they will hopefully have contacts for other agencies in your area in your state that help unwed mothers. Check with your own family for support. No matter who the father was and what he turned out to be, they may be excited to help support you and the new grandchild,niece/nephew.
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Ok this is hard to follow so you may consider writing it better and resubmitting, but from what I can understand, you have two choices: getting an abortion or becoming a mother. As for the guy, if you two can't get along, I'd just totally move on from him or try to get on speaking terms for child support.
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