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Does he still has feelings for me? Why does he try to make me jealous?


Question Posted Friday August 15 2014, 5:29 pm

My ex and I dated for 16 months. We broke up in March because he said he wasn't in love with me anymore. We went back and forth for a month and decided to call it quits because he asked me to wait on him while he was going out on dates and he asked another girl to prom. We didn't talk for a month when I accidently snapchatted him one night. he sent back a picture of him and his new girlfriend. Another month of no contact and he texts me to tell me congrats on graduating. Later that night I saw him and he asked for a hug. then a couple hours later he sends me a picture of two girls kissing his cheek. I texted him a few weeks later and asked if we could be friends and he said yes he wanted to be my friend even though it would be awkward. A few weeks later, he sends me a snapchat of him with another girl and says so happy you're out of my life. I deleted him from everything and haven't talked to him in over a month. I know he is just being immature and trying to make me jealous, but why? Why go through the trouble if he has moved on? I do miss him and would love to talk to him but every time I try, he just tries to make me jealous. Any advice?

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Zelbel answered Friday August 15 2014, 8:28 pm:
I had the exact same thing happen to me. And it really really sucks because he still means alot to you so all these things hurt. In my opinion i dont think he is trying to make you jealous in the sense that he might want you back. Tho im not him and i could be very wrong. The fact that he sent you a snapchat saying hes glad you are out of his life... Thats pretty mean. My ex always hurt me. He would say mean things and id forgive him and then he would do it again and i kept forgiving him. But one day i realised that i would never say or do the things he did to me. So why was i forgiving him and just taking everything he dishes out ? Because i was inlove and its true that love makes you blind. I still love him. But i wont go back to him because of the way he treated me.

Your ex might be trying to make you jealous... But when a guy says he isnt inlove anymore...its usually true. He might be trying to "win" at the break-up by proving he is better off without you. But please, dont allow him to hurt you.

You deserve nothing but the best!! And i cant chose for you... But sit down and think about your entire relationship and the time after u broke up with open eyes. And then u can decide if he is worth the trouble or not

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