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What does it mean when I get my period right after sex
Me and my boyfriend just had sex for the first time together we used a condom and he pulled out and I was supposed to start birth control pills the next day I came home to find that I am on my period is this a good thing or bad thing and do you think we used enough protection?
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You actually asked three questions, one in your title and two in your message so I will start with the title.
1. What does it mean if you see blood right after sex? I didn't say get your period because too many assume they are having their period when its something else.
Yes, it could be that timing wise, you happened to have sex right as you were about to start your period. The reason this happens quite often is that females can be much more horny during the time they ovulate up through their period, so its no surprise when a girl is having sex and gets her period right after. On the other hand, if there is some spotting that lasts a day or two or three, the light spotting, (not a heavy period) can be on one occasion from a hymen tearing, or even just the skin of the walls of the vagina tearing if there wasn't enough lube. Even older women can have the same issue if she's a bit dry at the time and he isn't using a lube. Or one other reason for seeing blood is a week to 10 days after sex, the amount of time for a fertilized egg to travel to the uterus where it implants into the uterus and releases a small amount of blood. This isnt the case for you as this was your first time. So it had to be one of the other two explanations for you.
2. Is getting a period right after sex a good thing or a bad thing?
It depends on your age and situation. If you are a teen and NOT wanting to become pregnant, then this is a good thing. A period is the shedding of the lining of the uterus because NO fertilized egg ever implanted in the lining. If it had, you would be pregnant and the lining would stay inside to feed baby instead of be shed as your period. If you are a young adult female, and want to become pregnant and after sex you see your period starting, then its not a good sign for you, it means you didn't become pregnant in this cycle.
3. Did you use enough protection? You will get all sorts of points of views on this depending who you ask. Just using the condom is real good way to prevent getting pregnant but there are things that can go wrong. The latex could be getting old, or have a defect in it wear it tears or has a pin hole big enough for sperm to swim through but not to be easily visible to the eye. Or a condom can come off inside the girl or if the fit isn't good, cum can leak out the sides. Basically, the guy needs to grip the base of the condom before pulling out to make sure it comes out with him. I did date in between the ex and finding new husband and did have sex and condoms were used but in one case, it ripped, and in another, he forgot to grab it and pulled out and the condom stayed inside. If that can happen to me, an adult woman it can happen to anyone. Luckily I was on the pill still at the time so wouldnt become pregnant but then i Had no STD protection.
I am glad to hear you are planning to use the pill. Be aware that there is a period of time needed for it to build up in your system from consecutive days of usage before you are fully protected from pregnancy. So be sure to read the instructions closely or call and check with the doctor or pharmacist as to how many days you must have been taking it Before you have sex again. Taking one or two pills and having sex is not going to protect you like you may think it will. Do check on that.
Lastly, you mentioned in the past, masturbating alot. Not quite sure I understood your statement correctly but am assuming you are saying after masturbation you had a flow that lasted two days and was heavy, not that you masturbated alot 2 days straight.
Two reasons I can see for seeing blood after masturbation. The first reason I've already mentioned, being that part of your cycle when you are more horny, it's more likely you will be masturbating at this time, unless you do so every day. But as I said, it isn't odd for a period to start right after masturbating for that reason.
Now if you were a bit rough on yourself, lots of pounding with a dildo, I have experienced the same at times, you can see a little spotting but definitely not a period started by the action of masturbating. The pounding whether by toy or penis, against the back of your vaginal can cause some soreness at the least and is nothing to worry about. Or it can produce a little spotting just from the bruising. But again, nothing to worry about. In time the body will be used to it and it shouldn't be an issue.
I hope this answers all your questions. If you have any more, let me know.
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I'm not clear on whether this was your first sex ever or what, but most times when a girl loses her virginity they break their hymen... It's a piece of skin in their vagina that blocks the way of where he puts his penis... But I'm not gonna guarantee this is the situation...
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