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Question Posted Tuesday July 29 2014, 12:50 pm

I have sex like 3 weeks ago in this month almost a week and I didn't have my period what am I to do the condom did not break rip or tear and he did not pre cum what am I to do I had my period last month at the beginning of this month it was irregular then it was regular that was my first time having sex am I pregnant. Help I don't want any kids now I'm to young.

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday July 30 2014, 5:02 am:
I can't say if you are pregnant or not but if its as you say you used a condom, it didn't break or leak, then there's little chance you are pregnant.

Most likely you missed your period because of stress. Stress over worry that you might be pregnant. We get tons of questions like this each month. Stress will stop a period more times than being pregnant and is something you will have to learn to deal with during the years of ministration.

Stress is an evil little devil. There is work related stress, and we will see an uptick in these letters around finals as stressing over exams and grades hit some girls. After the exams are over and the grades are in their periods return. The more stress you put yourself under the more the body reacts to it. If you stay stressed long enough you become depressed or can become depressed.

My suggestion is to get a home pregnancy test, follow the directions on the box as to how long after you've had sex as to when to test, when and how to take the test and see the results.

Normally I do not recommend keeping things from parents. In this one case I understand and if you are young enough to live at home I'm sure you do not want mom or dad to see the test kit.

Since most kits suggest taking the test with the first pee in the morning. What you might want to do is buy the kit the night before you want to test and put it in your purse. Take your purse or just the kit into the bathroom with you
when you go in for your morning shower. Take the test. After getting the results repackage the kit, put it back in your purse and get rid of the kit someplace away from home like a dumpster someplace.

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday July 29 2014, 6:07 pm:
I can't say if you are pregnant or not but if its as you say with the condom, then there's no chance you are pregnant.
This is more likely a case of irregular periods which are actually quite common with young teen girls When puberty hits...its actually a process the body begins to go thru so it's hit and miss for a while until it gets used to the routine. So periods can come too close together, too far apart, or not for a couple of months. The flow can be regular, heavy or just lots of spotting. I had the same problems as a teen. As long as you are taking precautions and there are no accidents, you'll be fine. If you decide to be quite regularly having sex, then you may want to consider getting on birth control. You didn't give an age but Planned Pregnancy does work with teens and it will be private info just as with any doctor. Under the hippa law, they cant give out info. on you, even to your parents so they dont need to know.

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