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How do I do it?
I asked a question about the right time to lose my virginity, and I got that answered, so when we are ready, I meen me and my gf, i actualy dont know how to lets say ask if she wants to have sexual intercourse? I really need an answer because we were even shy to express our feelings to eachother. thanks :)
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Well depending on your relationship - talking about it is overrated. Actions speak louder than words anyway - if you two are ready it will just be a explosion of fire and you will be able to tell, but to be honest with you, nothing will ever feel better than the moment leading up to it. Once you do it, sure you'll always want to, but you or she will never get anything back. Think about it, put her body into consideration. No pressure should be put on either of you. And like I said the moment leading up to it is the best feeling in the world. No need to actually rush into things - but if you are totally crazy about doing the deed, make physical advances, be romantic that is KEY! None of this "wham-bam thank you mam!" crap. Take it slow, be loving, hug, kiss whatever the hell kids do to make out these days etc... and the more you advance, read her body language, if she's not ready she will pull away or seem distant or she might even tell you to stop. There are so many things to make a woman come undone, but I don't even know how old you are... Hope this helped you out?
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Just ask her, and watch her facial expressions and body language. Because she may feel awkward and just agree. If she does agree, make sure she is comfortable through the whole thing. Pleasing your girl first is key.
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When in a relationship; you need to be able to talk to each other, COMMUNICATION is key!! If you think she is ready just sit her down and ask her. It's that simple. Just be straight forward and polite. DO NOT PRESSURE HER into sex. At all. Noe excuses. You need to show her you respect her. In the end though, if she doesn't want to have sex you can't change that.
Bottom line though You need to work on your communication skills, and remember to be a gentlemen :)
-Hardcore-Band-Geek
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