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Thanks!
That was so helpful. I loved when you said who cares what anyone else thinks. It makes sense.
So I did end up making plans and we're going out tonight.
My friend and her bf were going bowling and she asked if I wanted to come. So I said yeah and decided that maybe this would be a good opportunity to invite him to come with me. Plus, I wouldn't want to be a third wheel.
So tonight we're going bowling! Then hopefully getting dinner afterward.
I thought it would make it more of hanging out and enjoying each other company rather than an actual date and all the pressure and all that.
Especially since I think he's interested in me, but I'm not sure. He did give me his number and told me to text him so I thought that was a good sign. But the texting conversation was very boring. Like sometimes we'd talk about interesting things but the rest was kinda boring. I think he just might be one of those guys who aren't into texting though.
I'm a little nervous about tonight but I'm so glad I asked and that he wants to go.
I just wanted to say thank you. Any extra advice on what to do and what not to do?
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Hooray! I'm excited for you.
Last bit of advice, just be yourself. Too many people get nervous, think they aren't special enough just as they are and pretend to be someone they are not. the real problem is if the other person falls for your false identity which is hard to keep up indefinitely so eventually the real you breaks through and who knows what could happen then.
This is really only a problem if the girl pretends for example to be a big sports fan when she actually hates it, pretends to like dogs cus he has one but you're terrified of it, you get the picture.
Yes, many guys don't like texting or get bored with it cus they are visual people. Guys sometimes don't even relate well to phone calls. But being in person they have the added visual aids of the girls facial expressions, tone of voice, body language and such to make things interesting and get involved in the conversation.
Good luck.
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