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i feel like i am unlucky
have you ever feel like you are born to be unlucky for everything happening to u? well thats how i feel, i am in a lot of pain beacuse when i try hard very hard i would get bad results, when i try for scholarship with high expectation with consideration of my great application, as said by many ,i didnt get in, when i take national exam and i worked very very very hard for that but i didnt get what i should get either, i was heart broken, and the most disappointing thing from all is that everytime i fail someone like me becomes successful without trying as i did ,and that really hurt me. and expectation is the worest , beacuse everybody expects something great from me but most of the time i fail. i don't know what to do i can't let go and move on please any advice would help!!!
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I feel there are times when any of us could feel as you are feeling now. Sometimes the way you are feeling is the result of trying too hard, other times it could be because we have wrong direction. In your case I really cannot say as there is insufficient information to make any type of determination in that regard.
Yes when you work hard for something and do not obtain the desired results it can be demoralizing. What you have to do is pick yourself up and try again. My cousin had he not done as I just advised would not be the person he is today. He went to law school and try as he might he kept failing the Bar exam. He took his last exam, his third try at it and passed. Had he thrown up his hands and called himself a failure and walked away as some would say he had every right to do, he would not be where he is today.
While he is now semi-retired when he was working he became one of the youngest full partner his law firm ever made. I won't say the name of the firm for it is well known in the area of law it specializes in. By the time of his semi-retirement he had risen through the partnership ranks to become a Senior Partner and the Rainmaker for the firms branch he was in charge of.
Frankly if he wasn't my cousin I could not afford to speak with him as even in semi-retirement he bills out at over $500. an hour. This is what determination gets you if you want something badly enough.
It also has to be something you are passionate about. So my advice is this. IF the things you are chasing are things that you are passionate about and not something others pushing you too. Then keep pulling yourself up by your bootstraps and keep trying. If you are chasing someone else's dream for you then find your own dream and chase it.
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