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i know suicide is not the solution of anything. but i can't find the any other way.
I am Janender and I am a student. From the last year I was very tensed about my carrier because I could not a get Govt. Job. I don't know how these thing gonna be happened to me.
Sometimes I feel to kill myself. As I writing this question i am thinking about how to die. i know suicide is not the solution of anything. but i can't find the any other way.
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Hi Janeder! I just want you to ponder one thing: Will your job define you? We all want to be successful, but sometimes it just isn't worth it. Of course you want to be as happy as possible, but I'm sure that there are a lot of jobs that you could do. Maybe gain some experience, do some volunteering, get a smaller job, and then apply again. Suicide is never the answer. When I used to feel like I wanted to kill myself, I would just go and lay down and take a nap. Just please know that life is a valuable gift and that you shouldn't waste it.
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No!Youre right.Thats never the answer.A job is just a job but a life is A LIFE.Dont kill yourself if not for your self but for me,Pleaseeee
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Hello Janender
I was married in first marriage to a man who reacted much as you are currently. He would imagine and want and desire something so much that he would picture in his mind exactly how his day would go and his career would go and how his life would go. If anything happened that did not follow the dreams in his mind, he fell apart emotionally and on some occasions said he didn't want to live if he couldnt have 'what-ever' it was, or if an unexpected thing went wrong, car broken into, hot water tank in home breaking and flooding the carpets with water, he got very upset and couldn't handle it and threw fits and yelled and screamed and I had to handle the crisis so he could feel calm again. On a few occasions, he disappointments on things not going his way caused him to say he wanted to die. Much later in life, he went to see a counselor. We found out he had a disorder mentally with his thoughts, where he had some very wrong ways of thinking and choosing how to react.
It is not what happens outside of our bodies (that we have no control over anyways) that will cause us to have a particular emotional response, be it joy or sadness or anger or despair.
The choice is totally inside our minds as to how we are going to choose to react or respond to an external thing in our life.
You are not the only one to have to face not getting something you dearly wanted. In my life, I've learned to 'roll with the punches' a saying in the U.S. meaning no matter whats thrown at you, you're able to go with the way fate or energies are flowing, get back on your feet. thats when I keep my options open. Willing to let those higher powers help guide and show me as a soul what path is a better choice to be on right now. I've had many disappointments in life. I never let them keep me down for long. If grieving is needed, do so but then eventually come back to your cheerfull self and look for what else the world has for you to experience.
I look at life as a great big adventure with lots of unexpected twists and turns, and I find going along on the ride of this adventure to make me feel more alive than I could otherwise. It is rewarding and there is growth potential for each soul when we are open to this. Good luck.
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