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My mum is disappointed in me because of what I've done...
Im 14 and in year 9 and on my school trip some boys took my phone and ran into their tent with it, I'm a hot head and went in to get it instead of asking for help... I went in and they tackled me and all piled on I shouted for help and a teacher came but, you know how that looks one girl in a tent with loads of boys... I got told off by the teacher even though I explained what happened and they told my mum. She came to have a word with me and seemed so disappointed in me cause she works at the school and what I do reflects on her too but I had no bad in tensions and yet I still feel so nguilty and I know my mum is really upset...I'm very confused what do I do?
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The only thing I can see that you did wrong by what you have written here is not asking for help in retrieving your phone. Talk to your mother again and ask her to have the principal call these boys to the office and see if they can't be made to tell the truth about what happened if they haven't already done so.
If they have I can't see why you mom is disappointed in you. Stealing your phone was done to my mind to lure you into their tent. This makes what they did unlawful on two counts of the law. The first was stealing your phone. Based on the price of some phones today the boy who actually stole your phone is subject to felony theft charges in many states. Stealing your phone to lure you into the boys tent makes all the boys in that tent subject to charges of sexual harassment. For the boys who piled on you they are subject to sexual assault charges and if they attempted to tear or remove your clothing that makes them guilty of attempted rape.
These are all serious charges that you can bring against these boys. You don't need anyone's permission. What I suggest though is first you talk with mom and you and she talk with the principal. You need tell mom what these boys were doing to you besides just piling on you.
If any hand or hands were in places they should not have been and you said stop, no or get off me. Then they have committed sexual assault and very possible attempted rape. These boys should be expelled from school and reported to the police.
From what you have written you are an innocent victim. Mom working at the school does not negate the fact that you are a victim. You are do justice for this attack and the theft of your property and you have every right to demand it.
This is what you tell your mother in detail as to what happened to you in that tent before help arrived. Then you go to the principal and demand they take the appropriate action.
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