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We are both not completely happy


Question Posted Tuesday June 10 2014, 7:16 pm

Me:17 bf:22

My bf and I have been dating secretly for 2 yrs. I can't tell my parents because of religious reasons and their personal beliefs. My bf is not happy that we are a secret and I hate to see him not happy and I really cannot tell my parents. I'm also not happy because he's not happy. I want to end the relationship because I don't know where it's heading if we are a secret. He has told him parents but I can not tell my parents. What do you guys think?


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adviceman49 answered Wednesday June 11 2014, 5:57 am:
I think you need to end the relationship but not for the reasons you give. The 5 year difference in your ages could get him a long jail term if your parents find out and you are under the age of consent in your state. The charge would be statutory rape. You don't have to be in a sexual relationship. The law assumes in this case that because of the age difference sex could be occurring and it is unlawful for someone under the age of consent, a minor, to be in a sexual relationship with an adult.

If your parents were to find out they could file charges against him. This would be a very good reason to give to end the relationship if as you say you want to.

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