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Dating in the 8th grade: She likes me... now what do I do?
A really like this 8th grade girl from a different school and im a 7th grader .She told me that she really really likes me too. Idk what to do??:(
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Try to become friends with her first. All good relationships are based on friendship.
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Miss Piggy
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Don't panic you are not supposed to know what to do By my estimate you are somewhere between 11 and 13 years old way too young to be actually dating but old enough to start being interested in girls.
Girls your age are a little more advanced when it comes to being interested in boys and dating at this age. At this age dating has a different meaning then it does when your say 16. Dating right now means having someone to go to the mall with, to have someone to take them to school dances with. Hopefully they still have school dances where you live. Unfortunately where I live the number of school dances have been almost eliminated because of security concerns.
You are also not expected to pay for everything when you are together; after all you are both too young to have jobs. Your dates are what use to be called "Dutch Treat" where you each pay your own way.
I'm at a disadvantage to really advise you on just how to go forward since I don't know you and we probably don't live in the dame area. Your best advice on this subject right now is going to come from Mom and dad.
Mom can tell you what she wanted from a date when she was your age and dad can tell you what he did when he was your age when he went out with girls at your age. Fact is you really need to tell your parents at some point as you are still dependent on them for transportation. Since you are you may as well get the best advice you can straight from the people who have it.
I live in a very urban area near a major metropolitan city. Kids are treated badly in malls and shopping centers where they would like to hangout and just talk and maybe have some hamburgers. The malls want kids not to be seen or heard if they make any type of disturbance they are escorted out. This leaves bowling, miniature golf and the movies for them to see and do.
Your community may be much different this is why I am suggesting you talk with mom and dad to ask them what they did when they were your age. I'm sure they will as I did my child share their adventures with you.
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