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Stuck between feuding family members Hello adviceman49,
Thank you for your reply. I am new here and could not find a way to reply in the traditional fashion to your advice -- read the FAQ but that didn't help. Is this the correct way to reply, or if not, please let me know.
I agree with all that you wrote. Unfortunately, neither party will want to seek counseling or deal with a third party. So, as you said, I must make a decision.
I think I'll email my brother one more time to see if he will reply. If he does not, I think I will have to tell my husband even though that will probably create a life-long rift with my brother. I can't carry on being the buffer in the middle, holding things back from my husband. It's sad that my brother can't rise above this. but I have seen him behave this way over much smaller things and never forgive.
Thanks for listening.
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This is one of two ways you can reply. This is the best way if you want us to respond to your comment. The other way is when you rate our response there is a place for you to make a comment. That is a one way communication from you to us. Once we have responded to you we can no longer access your question to answer a comment on the rating area.
I wish I had a better solution for you but there were only the two. Hopefully you will not need to go through the court for that I sure will cause a permanent rift. A disinterested third party or arbitrator is the best solution. A family counselor works best here.
I hope everything works out for you. My condolences on the loss of your parents. ]
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