My gf is not suffering from menses since 1 month she blamed me that i make love with her so thats y she is not suffering from menses ?? But we both ate virgin .. Advice some medication
First: If you made love to her; meaning your penis was inside her vagina, even briefly then neither of you are virgins any longer. Virginity has all to do with penetration and not the completion of the act of lovemaking.
Second: If your girlfriend has missed her period then there is a possibility she is pregnant. The reason I say possibility is being pregnant is not the only reason a women can miss a period. Stress is another reason and being worried over whether or not she may be pregnant is one of the biggest reasons for stress and missing a period.
The only way to tell for certain is to get a home test kit or go to the doctor and be tested.
Third: Depending on her age and the laws in the country where you live. IF she is not pregnant and the doctor will need to make sure of this before issuing any medication. Then only a doctor can offer any type of birth control medication or devices.
What you can do is to use a condom when making love. Not only does the condom protect against pregnancy. It is effective in preventing the transmission of many but not all of STDS and the HIV/AIDS virus. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Sunday April 20 2014, 4:47 am: You definitely are not very clear, but I will try my best to guess. Since you use the word 'suffering' that leads me to believe you refer to cramps that she gets with her period. Then you say you make love and are virgins. If you mean by virgin that the only thing you have not yet done is penis in the vagina sex, I understand and there are many other things a person can do to make love.
One of the best ways to treat pain is by making love, and it works even better if there are orgasms. There is a certain type of 'feel good' hormone released by our bodies during making love which can take away the pain of headaches for example or even cramps from her period.
Now if this is not about cramps going away but the fact that she did not have her period show up a month after being sexual with you, there are two possibiliites, the first being that even if you didnt enter her, you got semen near her vagina, on the labia, put there by your hand or her hand or by the tip of the penis being close enough to deposit the precum on her.
the second reason is that if she is a teenageer, even though she's had a regular period before it is normal to become irregular even if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. At 14 I had a period that came too often or didn't come for a couple months, lasted a few days to as long as 2 weeks, and so on. So her period not showing up could be due to her body still getting used to hormones and this level out by time she reaches her late teens. Or stress and worry over possibly becoming pregant can delay a period, or having been recently ill can delay it or other medical reasons. There isn't a special medicine to take to make a period appear. She needs to go get a check up to rule out any major problem. If its the teen hormone or worry or illness issues then all is fine. She should take a pregnancy test to make sure she isn't pregnant. And before you two fool around again, get on some birth control because virgins can get pregnant in a manner I explained.
If I still haven't guesse at what you were trying to say, you're gonna have to explain better and try again. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
Short_N_Punky answered Saturday April 19 2014, 11:04 pm: Suffering from menses? ate virgin? Im not quit sure what this question is but if you are worried about pregnancy, then she should take a test or go to the obgyn. [ Short_N_Punky's advice column | Ask Short_N_Punky A Question ]
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