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Sounds?
Hello! So I was texting my boyfriend last night. and we've been experimenting with touching (nothing serious) and he said that one time I moaned slightly. I was kind of embarrassed. But I'm curious, what does moaning sound like?
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Hi. I can remember the same worry I when was younger, and do you know, one sometimes accidentally overhears a conversation between younger ladies (I might be having a cup of tea in a cafe, standing in a shop queue) which follow a similar line. Namely that it's not 'the right thing to do' to moan, or make any sort of noises of pleasure/satisfaction when indulging in a little love-play (or having sex, where applicable) with their boyfriends. And of course, it's simply not permitted for a girl to actually talk to her partner during sex...good God no!! One even finds the idea behind it might be that it suggests she is actually enjoying sex, and therefore might appear, or come across as 'slutty'. There's a big element of self-confidence, and (I see you're 14) by the time you're 20 I guarantee you'll overhear the same anxieties, have a bit of a smile to yourself and think 'I was just like that.' I guess what I'm trying to say is the awkwardness/embarrassment is a passing thing so don't get hung-up about it. If you feel like a bit of a moan, go for it. And if he does something that feels nice, telling him
"Mmmm...that feels nice" isn't breaking the 'rules'. I'd take a guess most younger guys quite enjoy hearing their girlfriends expressing a little pleasure. I'm not suggesting you put on or try copy the totally over-the-top (and fake) vocal performance one encounters in adult/porn video of course...that would be going rather too far, don't you think?? You're ok, stop worrying. X
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Thats nothing to be embarassed about. Making a wide variety of sounds when we are beginning to be aroused, something feels really sensual and good or the sounds made during orgasm are all unique to the individual. I found I made totally different sounds with different partners in the past. It wasnt something I gave thought to, its just the sounds that came out.
I can give a few examples though. Think of the Mmmm sound you make when a meal tastes real good, thats one sound, and the same kind of sound with lips open rather than pressed together. Or something more pronounced like the sound you might make if you had a bad tummy ache or cramps, that kind of groan only in this case its in response to something pleasurable rather than pain. Others will make sounds like b for the Dr. checking your tonsils, like a "Ahhhhhh" If you have tried to talk to someone when you've been running hard and still trying to catch your breath, that gasping, breathy sound is another. And theres much much more, some barely a sound at all, others an outright shout or scream. And its all normal.
If it makes you feel any better, the first time I made a sound and it was pointed out to me, I was embarrassed too.
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