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Love actually?
I had been staying with wife for almost a year. Then suddenly she leaves house and has been really abusive verbally ever since. She has filed a divorce case against me. But, I cannot stop liking her. I tried to convey my liking to her in many ways, but nothing seems to work. Can you please advice what to do next/ how to get over it?
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You could ask her for the reason of her leaving. If she really left that suddenly, you deserve an explanation. That way, you at least know why she left and you won't have to guess at what you did or what went wrong. If you know why and you know IF she really has changed her mind, you can give it some closure by starting to realize you'll have to build up your life as a single again. Spend time on the things that you're passionated about and surround yourself with people you love and who love you. Your feelings won't change tomorrow or next week, but day by day it changes a little without you noticing it.(If you still believe there is hope for getting her back though, then don't just let her go if you really love her, but don't get your hopes up for nothing either) Hold on and take care!
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How long have you two actually been married?
I don't think you can do anything to stop her. When a woman doesn't want to be with a man anymore, her heart is as cold as ice. Only time can heal the pain.
Usually when I'm upset about something, I do something that makes me happy. And if she is your happiness, then you're at fault for making her your everything because when she leaves, you're left with nothing.
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