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it hurts when i put my finger in!
Um, while I was masturbating in the shower, I started with my clit, it felt so good, then for the first time, I slid my finger in my ***** but it kind of hurt. What do I do to make it not hurt when I slide it in?
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dont slide it in,
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I'm not entirely sure why it hurt when you put your finger in your vagina. If you are able to insert a Tampon then putting a finger in should be just as easy.
My thinking was you were standing and your muscles were tight. You were also probably a little scare or anxious about masturbating or trying this. Masturbation is normal and healthy so if this was or is your problem relax.
I don't know why parent make such a big deal over masturbation. We all do it or at least 85% of us according to a recent survey. I think the fear is if our children are allowed to masturbate they will want to go on to the next step and have actual sex. My thinking was and is just the opposite. My children were told we would rather they masturbate in the privacy of their rooms then to go out seeking sexual relief and get pregnant or get a girl pregnant.
My suggestion is the next time you want to try this. Go in your room, close and lock the door so you cannot be intruded upon and lie back on your bed. If you want you can dim the lights and put on some music. Put a bit of petroleum jelly on your finger as a lubricant, relax and try again.
Note: Make sure the nails on the finger or fingers you wish to insert into your vagina are clipped short so as not to scratch yourself.
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Usually I don't answer questions like this, but I decided to take a new approach. Hopefully I can help, but I don't consider myself an expert in this subject.
If you want to use your finger, try to relax more. That should help make it hurt less. And make sure that your nails are clipped too. That might be causing some pain. Also, if you want to try something that isn't as messy and is a lot smoother, perhaps use a plastic tampon applicator. Don't insert the tampon itself, but you can use the applicator easily.
I hope that helped a bit!
Have a super, fantastic, awesome, splendid, amazing day!
~Eliza McFarlish
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