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Um, while I was masturbating in the shower, I started with my clit, it felt so good, then for the first time, I slid my finger in my ***** but it kind of hurt. What do I do to make it not hurt when I slide it in?
Usually I don't answer questions like this, but I decided to take a new approach. Hopefully I can help, but I don't consider myself an expert in this subject.
If you want to use your finger, try to relax more. That should help make it hurt less. And make sure that your nails are clipped too. That might be causing some pain. Also, if you want to try something that isn't as messy and is a lot smoother, perhaps use a plastic tampon applicator. Don't insert the tampon itself, but you can use the applicator easily.
I hope that helped a bit!
Have a super, fantastic, awesome, splendid, amazing day!
~Eliza McFarlish
Taking credit card payments with your phone? Is it true that you can actually do this with an iPhone? How do you do it? Do you need to buy anything? Can you use it in a business? Or, was someone just pulling my leg? :)
Yes, you can take credit card payments on your iPhone. There are a few versions of it that you will need to buy, I have heard of Square Up and a PayPal system. They can be used in business, do some more research for yourself and maybe you could try it yourself. It exists though, I have seen and used one before!
Hope that helped!
Have a super, fantastic, awesome, splendid, amazing day!
~Eliza McFarlish
I need thoughts & opinions on why it may Be that I'm having problems urinating. About 5 days ago everything was okay and I was having no issues using the bathtoom. Then the next day (about 4 days ago) I got up and used the bathroom in the morning. I speed and everything felt fine... until the end. When my urine started slowing down as if I was done urinating I felt like I want done though so I pushed (not harsh) but it hurt and I felt a discomfort and pressure. I'm not sure how to explain it very well. When you per you obviously know when you're done pending, but now when I have the urge to pee, I go and the urine does not burn or sting, but when I get 'done' peeing I still feel like I have more in me that should come out but it doesn't and when i push out even slightly my private feels like theres a lot of presure in it. It's very discomforting and it stings a little to push out because of the pressure i feel. I've had the feeling to urinate very often. Like almost a day for the last 4 days. I should go to the doctor because im very curious to know why this is and i want it to go away of course because there Is something wrong. But theres reasons why im not going, yet. I've never had this happen to me (when I was little maybe but I'm 18 now and I've never had problems urinating). This really came up from out the blue. I feel like there's a block age or something in my private so when I pee the pee comes out fine but there's a pressure I feel and it feels like my tank is still full. I came off my period about a week and some days ago or so. Now when I pee though almost every time I wipe I have a Little bit of yellowish-brown gunk come out. It looks slimy, kind of like semen. Also I had a LITTLE bit of blood come out a couple times too. And yesterday, as I was on my way to go someplace, I had an urge to pee n all of a sudden it got worse n I actually had a couple drops of per or something leak. (Just a tad not a lot at all) but that's never happened. Maybe its the pressure that I've been feeling that didn't let me to hold that. By the way I have a boyfriend and we've had intercourse often for the last 8 months. We had intercourse about a day or two days before my problem occurred. My problem has Nothing to do with an STD though. And I don't believe it has to do with a pregnancy. Any ideas? Any advice is appreciated.
I'm sorry about the discomfort you are experiencing, I feel for you! I am not a doctor, but I do have a hunch as to what might be wrong, because similar symptoms have happened to me.
It sounds like you might have a UTI, or a urinary tract infection. As a kid, I got them a lot! I suggest you talk to a doctor about this. If it is a UTI, it can be fixed with some medications, usually antibiotics.
Also, a quick side note. If you hold your urine in too long it can cause more problems, so try to use the restroom when you first feel the need to. Right now, you probably feel like you have to go constantly, but when you feel better, make sure you make as many stops to the restroom as you need. Failing to do so can lead to further problems.
Hope this helped!
Have a super, fantastic, awesome, splendid, amazing day!
~Eliza
I go to a pentecostal church and one Sunday they were talking about the trinity and i am confused is God , Jesus Christ and the Holy spirit all the same people or are they different people ? I am also confused on how long it takes us to get to heaven. my mom believes in soul sleep but my pastor tells me that you go to heaven as soon as you die if you are saved which one is true ?
Your personal opinion has a lot to do with what you believe. A lot of the Christian religion can be confusing, and often you have to think things for yourself. My pastor might believe something different than my youth leader, but the both believe in the same God. Personally, I think God is the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. He is able to offer the knowledge and wisdom of a father, the friendship and trust of a friend or sibling, and the guidance and everlasting love of a mother. While God is all three of these things, He is also one. That is why the Holy Trinity is often called the three in one. The symbol used to describe the Trinity is a circle with a triangle in it. All of these points are different, but are all contained within the circle.
As far as heaven, nobody can tell you what heaven will be like. Part of being a Christian is believing in the unknown. Which is a very difficult topic to wrap your head around. I myself don't know which viewpoint I side with. When relatives or friends pass away, people will encourage you by saying that they will be looking down on us. But then, how can there be a Day of Judgement if everyone gets to heaven at different times? Don't worry about this too much, we don't know the answer. Human nature makes us want to know, but we have to accept that we won't find out until our time comes.
There are many things I'd like to ask God, and this is one of them. Religion is a difficult concept, but the important thing to remember is to live your life for Jesus.
Have a super, fantastic, awesome, splendid, amazing day!
~Eliza
I'm a young girl on my period. I'm not too concerned about it but it seems like every time I go to bed then wake up, there isn't that much blood on the tampon. My blood is a little heavy too. Is that normal?
I don't suggest that you wear a tampon to bed. There is the risk of TSS, and its always a good idea to give your body a break at night. I'm a huge tampon fan myself, but I always wear pads to bed.
I have the same problem. I will wake up and there will be no blood. I would not be concerned about this because I know a lot of girls who experience the same thing. Think of things on the bright side. If you don't bleed at night, then you stay clean the whole day!
You are perfectly normal! But, it is very smart to be aware and concerned about your body!
Have a super, fantastic, awesome, splendid day!
~Eliza