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my age is 16 and i am a girl from india last month i got into a relationship on 9th but it was nrmal and i got my periods on tym but this month i have not yet got my periods ? can his regular kissing make me pregnant ? he slept on me but wid all the clothes on ? can this make me pregnant ? (link)
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No, you have to have genital contact. It is possible to get pregnant even if he penetrates but doesn't ejaculate. Be careful. I am concerned he slept on top of you. That is very uncomfortable.
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Hi, I am a fourteen year old girl. My parents are divorced and have been since I was six years old. I love them both very much and I really appreciate everything they have done for me, I am truly blessed to have them in my life. They are so supportive of me but.. I find myself happier at my fathers. My real father actually respects me..when I'm having a rough time he almost always tries to see things from my perspective and never invades my privacy. My father and I have so much fun together, but he has missed out on the past seven or eight years of my life and I think it is time for my father to have a turn..you know? My stepdad doesn't respect me very much but he does keep a roof over my head, and food in my stomach, and clothes on my back. My mother,. she is amazing. I love her so much.. although sometimes she can drive everyone in the same room nuts at the same time, I love her very much. I dont want to hurt anyones feelings or make them feel like I am trying to push them away.. I am just a bit confused on how I should go about this but how should I go about moving in with my father? How should I ask my mother without hurting her feelings? Does it matter what makes me happy or my parents? Thank you in advance. (link)
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I hate so much you are having to even think of this question. I do agree with the other response, in that living with you father will be COMPLETELY different that visiting. He will then become the responsible parent. However, if your mother's husband doesn't respect you, you may need your father right now. Just make sure you are loving and kind to your mother. But first, do talk to your father before you even bring it up. Maybe, he can talk to your mother for you and make that transition for you. You shouldn't have to choose. How awful. Hopefully, your parents will help you do what is best for you. If they are sad or angry, they just love you. I hope this goes well for you!!
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I have never had a job in my life, apart from working for my grandparents on the weekend, doing yard work and helping fix houses and stuff. My mom has been paying for my college and an apartment for me for the past two years. She pays for my car insurance, cell phone, pretty much everything except my power bill, food (most of the time), gas for my car, and my internet.
In another two quarters I will be out of school. By this time, I want to be 100% self-sufficient. I want to have a job in graphic design (or something along those lines). I possibly want to move away from here. I know that I'll miss my family and that they'll miss me, but I believe that getting a fresh start will be good for me. I don't have very many friends here anyways.
Any advice for me? What are some steps I should take? (link)
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I think that sounds like a brilliant idea. I hope your motives are sound though. Don't run away from family, you will need them more than you know at some point. You are young, and now is the time to see what's out there. You probably will need there help for a little while because even if you get a job immediately, there may be some amount of waiting period for health benefits, etc. to kick-in. Also, you will need to work long enough to build up the cash to pay your own bills. Be patient and humble with your family. They sound pretty awesome.
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short version: 20 yr old step daughter torturing us. tried everything, almost out of ideas. she\'s distroying our marriage. any ideas to stop her appreciated!
long version: i\'m a 32 yr old female in the us. i started dating a guy 5 yrs ago who had full custody of his 16 yr old daughter. he\'s 16 yrs my senior. soon, she began a quest to break us up. she was rude, ruined our dates on purpose, etc. he was blind & didn\'t see it. she\'s very sneaky & hid it well. eventually, i told him about her actions & when he confronted her, she was proud of her behavior!
when she was 18, he proposed to me. we had been together for 2 yrs. i agreed to marry, but only when she moved out & quit causing trouble. he gained control for a short while & i thought it was over. she moved out at 18 and we got married. he let his boundaries slide & her quest to torture us continued. he talked to her many times, but she had no remorse. she said she had no choice but to be this way because it\'s the only way to treat a stepmom. he has asked her many times if i had ever done anything. she quickly said \"no, her only crime was loving you.\"
i\'ve been called &^*&(@#(*& so many times and until recently, my husband wouldn\'t stand up for me. he also expected me to not do anything to her in return, so out of respect for him, i didn\'t.
she\'s 20 now (will be 21 in 4 months.) this past saturday, his daughter got drunk and called my hubby & asked him to come over & not judge her. she thought he wasn\'t coming & cursed him out. she called him everything from a sperm donor to a effin\' a$$hole. i heard her call me an effin\' b#$ch. when he arrived to her house, she was drunk, in her panties, lying face down on the floor, throwing up and cursing her mother on the phone. he yelled at her not to speak to her mother that way, took care of her, put her to bed & left saying \"i don\'t deserve to be treated this way. we will talk tomorrow.\"
on monday, he confronted her, but she was arrogant and angry. she said her fear with me is that we will both need him at the same time & he will be there for me. she was very self righteous & showed no remorse. he told her he would slap the $hi% out of her if she ever spoke about us that way again.
i\'ve never done anything to her. infact, i tried to be super nice & pray for her in private. then i moved on to ignoring her & avoiding her. next was trying to protect myself from her actions. now, i\'m flaming mad & need this to end or i\'m leaving!!! my curent idea is to make her scared of me. i don't know if it\'ll stop her from hurting us, but idk what else to do. i was in the marines & i am good at intimidating. i hate doing it, but i don't know what to do.
my husband & i are in marriage counceling & struggling due to the damage she caused.
so, last night, i went to her house and put stink things under her doormat & garage. when she steps on them, they\'ll make a huge stink. then, i went to her work & while in the parking lot, i poured one of the stink viles on her car, so she smells it at both places. i confronted her in the parking lot, telling her she doesn\'t know what an effin\' b is & i\'m going to give her an education. she just got all weepy & ran in her car saying \"i don\'t want to talk to you.\" i\'m planning to do a few \"revenge\" type things to her so she\'ll be looking over her sholder all the time. maybe, she\'ll be too scared to mess with us anymore. since she wanted an evil stepmom, will giving her one help? what to do??? if i do nothing, my marriage is over.
i don\'t want to be mean. honest to God i don\'t. i want to be a good stepmom, love her and be kind to her. but i\'ve taken all i can take for almost 5 years. all opinions appreciated. thanks in advance!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Your step-daughter feels threatened and thrown away. Her father needs to be there for her but needs to set loving boundaries that she is not going to act this way or she will be asked to leave, etc. Of course, revenge is a really bad idea, but I've felt that way before in my own situation. At the end of the day though, she's still his little girl. Compassion will work in your favor as well as forgiveness. I am a christian who re-married, and sometimes, I think it is our duty to make divorce work as much as we can. We should try harder than ever to make sure the step-children feel they are welcome any time like our own children (maybe even more so), but that they cannot be disruptive (as we would do our own children). This goes for any age child - 4 to 74! Your Step-daughter REALLY can't help the way she feels. Her family is her only roots. I hope since your post that things have improved.
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