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it hurts when i put a finger in my vagina
So, um, when i was masturbating in the shower, i started with my clit, it felt so good, then i tried for the first time to put my finger in. It kind of hurt. What do i do to make it feel good when i put it in?
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Have you ever used a tampon, because if that fits, then your finger is smaller and should fit fine without any pain . You may hanve been so nervous about exploring yourself that way that you involuntarily tightened all muscles.
You may want to get some personal lubricant into the shower with you, it will help the sliding of anything in whether a vibrator, tampon, fingers, or when the day comes, personal lube before partner sex and a penis entering. You can slowly get your hymen to stretch by working with it often using lubricated finger and then adding a 2nd one and a 3rd. It's elastic like a rubber band and will stretch out like one too
So Try lube, if it doesnt help, you may want to get a good look at your vaginal opening to see if you can see anything wrong. Use mirrors facing you in well lit area, best if daylight coming in a window while you sit on floor in patch of sunlight, legs parted and hands parting the labia to look. What you are looking to find is if your hymen is stretched in one strip of skin straight down the middle, in effect creating two openings to the one vagina. These openings will be sometimes too small to get a tampon in and therefore possibly a finger too. And the tugging at that strip of skin will be anywhere from uncomfortable to really painful. If you have this, its called a septate hymen and is easily taken care of by the doctor under general anesthetics and they snip away that piece of skin. If you believe you may have a septate hymen,and can't put in tampons without pain/discomfort, you might want to see a doctor. Either tell Mom you have trouble getting getting tampons in, cus its too tight and painful and you want to see a doctor about that or if you are too embarrassed and don't want her to know, then go to Planned parenthood for an exam. According to the Hippa law, this will all be kept confidential, even your parents cant know without your permission.
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