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Does he really mean it?
Hi, I am fifteen years old, and my boyfriend is seventeen years old. We have been together for five months, and I am madly in love with him, there is just one problem. He tells me he loves me a lot, but I really don't feel as he means it. He'll hug on me, hold me, and kiss on me, all the time, especially in public, but I just still don't feel as he really loves me. I really don't want to lose him, he is the light to my world. I have spent hours crying over this, because I don't want to lose him. What should I do?
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When we are young and experience our first love, it's always special. Since we have not experienced any like this before, we have nothing to compare it to, we just know its very intense feelings. Many call this puppy love. Enjoy it.There's no way for you to instantly know whether he means it.
True love for another is proven over time through the experiences, how he treats you, through the nitty gritty of life, does he have opportunity to see you at your worst, not your best and still love you? Love is not snapping back at your sweetie when they have a headache that makes them short tempered at the time and they snap at you. Love is getting up from watching a movie and asking if you can bring your sweetie a refill on their drink, love is making a trip to Walmart at 2am because your sweetie is sick and you discover you're out of flu and cold medicine...all things my hubby as done for me.
He says he loves me all the time, but he proves it by his actions. All you need to do is experience it and decide for yourself whether his actions are loving and supportive instead of controlling, and selfish.
At this age range, many boys wanting their first sexual experience will 'court' a girl so to speak and tell her that he loves her to get her to the point of wanting to experience sexual things. Thats okay
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