|
Fallin out od love
So i didnt get to contact him in anyways last time so instead i sent him a text saying Wow now that i reminince about it. We've had a lot of things that have happened. But I want to be honest here. im not doing this with the purpose of getting back together with you. I just want to see you in person to find closure to settle this unrest i feel in my heart. Whatever happens happens. Reply when you see this and hopeefully tell me a day and time to meet. I dont want to take no as an answer and you know how persistent i can get." And he never feplies back. But still he checked me snapchat stories again. Sigh i think he is just ignoring me now and i feel like a piece of shit. I just want to see him one last time and forgive and forget if he truely feels like he dowsnt love me. What should i do i gave him like probably three days leeway nevause i didnt bombard him with texts demanding that he answers. Bht im thinking about calling him once and texting him once more to see if hed actually reply. If not idk what i will do. Im soery if i sound so annoyingly persistent about my ex. Imbjust a girl that follows her hesrt more than her mind. I even want to try to be friends with him to just ease back into a friendship at the very least. I feel hurt that hed actually ignore me because he never did this before.
Oh so like my oak grove friend from tkd was talking to me and she asked me about me and him. And i told her about how his friends told him that they dont think were going to work out and i think it may be possibly influencing to him. And so she asked me who his close friends were. And i told her that two o then are these people named patrick and daniel. And she was like oh i kinda know these guys from mutual fiends. And so my friend told me how patricks girlfriend jumps from guy to guy constantly and bot long after a relationship. And in my friends group they jokingly call her a wh8re. And then she told me about how daniels girlfriend and her has hated each other since 8th grade for various reasons. And she told me that daniels girlfriend is a spoiled brat. Idk i just kinda found this interesting especially because these are his best friends girlfriends. And he usually makes it sound like his friends know a lot about relationships and are in a perfect relationship to be able to tell my ex thatwe arent working out when they could have told him to try to fix it. And then this so called great relationship of his two closest friends actually seems not as great anymore when his friends girlfriends sound like kinda bad people..
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Just don't contact him anymore. By not answering, he gave you an answer. If he wanted to, he could have answered and he didn't. So just take that as your answer and let him go. It's not like he didn't see the message, he's just ignoring you so you need to respect his decision and move on. There is really nothing else you can do.
Maybe friendship can be in your future someday, but that can only happy when you don't have feelings for him anymore. Once you don't have feelings for him, go ahead and try to be his friend.
You have to realize that being his friend would mean being ok with him dating other girls. I don't think you're at that point so just move on right now.
As for his best friends and their girlfriends, who cares? He chose his friends and he might even think they know a lot about relationships because of their experience or since they're so close, he might just value their opinion. Even though it might seem stupid, you can't really do much about that either.
You can't control what he does, you can only control what you do. So it's time to move on.
]
More Questions: |