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How to just overall stop paying attention to this guy?
There's this guy that's in ALL of my classes. He's really starting to creep me out for various reasons. I started to "dislike" him awhile ago, and that's when I just started paying more attention. I don't want him looking at me, and that's why I've been paying more attention I guess. How can I just stop this? By the way, no, I do NOT like him.
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I can only imagine what your two 'various reasons' are but if he's looking at you a lot for one, its possible he finds you interesting or attractive and hasn't developed the nerve to approach you to talk to yet or ask to go out with.
Sometimes, just having someone watch your every move can be unnerving, especially when they do nothing to let on what they are thinking....its a big mystery.
It could possibly be that the subconscious part of you deep down likes a good mystery and that alone is what has you intrigued, intrigued enough to begin watching him now too. I think the only thing that will really help stop your need to focus on him is to take the wondering and mystery away from why he stares at you. And the way to do it is to go talk to him whether you like him or not. Say something like, "I have noticed for some time how you seem to be watching me a lot. It is quite unnerving. Is there something I am doing or saying that is weird or something?" That way you get him started talking. I can only say this based on the only example I have of what he is doing is staring at you. If this isn't helpful, you need to explain more.
Without actual examples of why you dislike him and specific things he may have done, I couldnt have any other advice for you.
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