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Wess tha deal?
Well,I date this new boy & he cute (chris brown) look alike.Umm,but i barely start dating him & he already starting to go alil too far..What should i do?
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Believe it or not, the guys worth having for a boyfriend will honor your setting boundaries and saying no. Just heard from a girl who said her guy loved her all the more because she said she wanted to wait on anything in the romance and sex department. She just wanted to develop friendship first. And thats the way to do it.
Your guy is not a mind reader so you need to communicate verbally and not feel bad to have your own standards. Do not apologize for what you like and don't like and what your limits are. If a guy can't accept you with those limits, then he is not worth having. Do not let any guy 'talk you into' doing something you don't want just to keep him. There's plenty better fish in the sea. Everytime you allow a guy to get away with what "HE" wants, without any consideration for your feelings, then you send a message that you are "Desperate" and therefore will put up with any kind of nasty behavior from him. He will actually be trained by desperate girls throwing themselves at a guy to become more selfish and lazy and controlling etc.... If a guy doesn't have to work hard and learn how to treat a lady well to 'get the girl', then there's nothing forcing him to learn to become a better man.
So make your stand dear. Tell him you're not comfortable with that, go into detail of what you will tolerate from him and not and get him to promise to follow your wishes, and if he won't, dump him immediately.
An FYI, males find confidence like that in a female even more attractive than looks. So become confident and you will attract the right guys.
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