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Apology Gift for the man I am having an affair with
The man I am having an affair with is upset with me... He doesn't care that I am engaged we are young and having fun...
The problem is I have fallen absolutely in love with him.
I need a gift to apologize for hurting him in the past..our affair is newly rekindled after 6months of not talking..
Gifts,?! Things i can do?! I need him back. I need his love. Help.
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And do you not love the one you are engaged to? Perhaps Mr. Affair is in love with you and that's why he is hurt and he wants you to marry him instead of the fiancee. If Mr. Affair is totally available and not married or dating someone else, and you love but are not in love with the fiancee, then I would say that if I have these details right, the best gift you could give him is your entire heart and to ask him to marry you and break up with the fiancee.
And how much time do you think you will have for him once married? There's bound to be future hurts on his part..over and over. This could become a repeating cycle, where no gift helps with an apology. If you are able to "buy" his love with a gift, I'd question the level of so called love he has for you.
If you believe you are deeply in love with two men at the same time, you better hope they are okay with sharing as in "Polyamory". Just an FYI...if Fiancee doesn't know about Mr. Affair and finds out later, would he be more likely to ignore the affair and go have affairs of his own. Woould you be okay with that. Would he be more likely to demand you stop seeing him. Or would he want a divorce? Things done in secrecy don't often have good results.
At some point in the future you are bound to lose one man or the other. If I were you, I'd come clean now and Have a meeting all 3 of you and tell your men that you are in love with both of them and don't want to have to choose between them and you don't want to hurt them and that you are hoping they are okay with sharing you in a triad relationship. Go read up on Polyamory... its for real but its all about honesty, no sneaking around. If you want info on that let me know. If all you still want is an idea for a gift, buy him anything you want, cus it doesnt make a difference.
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