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Are you female/married and have had an affair with a married man?
I am married, for over 10 years and have recently started an affair with a married man (he's been married 19 years). I've read about affairs on line, the disaster they cause, the guilt. Of course, I did not plan this, please do not reply to this question if you are going to tell me what an awful person I am. This question is for women that have gone, or are going, through this. We both have children, he is in his 50's, I am in my 40's, we work for the same company, but at different locations. The connection we have, is incredible, we talk for hours, we joke, we share things about our lives and our spouses. When we finally decided to get together, we both knew, we were going to have sex. I have never in my life felt so comfortable with a man, then when I was with him in bed. I didn't feel shame or embarassment, it was like a dream.
I am not delusional, I know that what I feel, is most likely, not real. I know when he says he loves me, he is actually saying "I love the way you make me feel". He has no plans to leave his wife nor do I plan on leaving my husband, so I don't even know why it continues (excitement/thrill?)
Tell me your story, are you still having the affair? Did you or he end it? How did it end? Did you wind up together?
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I will never have an affair with a married man.
This is impossible for me. As the affair part of it, in it's original meaning, cannot apply to me.
However, I wanted to comment on this share...
I liked that way you acknowledged the option that when he says he loves you, its like saying "he loves the way you make him feel"..
That's a wisdom many people the world over lack.
Yet...
you still acknowledge that you are feeling what you feel when yall are together...
I admire that...
Good Luck
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