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First Kiss On Stage
Ok so this is a really hard one. I am in 8th grade. I was recently cast as the leading female role in our school musical. We triple casted so there were 3 main girls and 3 main guys. I was with guy 2 and 3 because I did two performances. There was a kissing scene but my director gave us a choice. The guys pestered is about it for days because they wanted to kiss us. (The girls were all in 8th, boys all in 7th). We all stood our ground with a no. The first performance was with guy 3. We messed up a lot and only hugged because he is a creep. Over practice time I had begun to like guy 2. I had a performance with him in front of the 7th grade. All of the sudden right before that show everyone wanted me to kiss him. In my heart I realized I wanted to kiss him (during the show there was a song like this). So during the song where we kissed. We both nodded to each other and we kissed. Everyone in the auditorium freaked out because out of 7 performances, this was the last and the only any one had kissed. May I remind you that this is the guy that everyone likes. It was not the best kiss but it worked. Two days later. Now. Everyone is talking about it. I am a mystery girl to most because I didn't wear my glasses during the performance. I kinda like him. No. I like him. And I kissed him. The entire performance was perfect between us. Fellow cast members said us playing those roles together were the best combo. But the dance is in two days. He is going with my friend. This was decided by him before all this. I am sure I doesn't like me. I realized I liked him when I realized I was jealous. He has ignored me and I have ignored him since. What do I do?
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Before I give you an answer can I just say woah, you should write that down its like a dramatic plot for a chick flick/manga/fairy-tale! And thanks for coming to me~
Okay, so you like him? Its good that you kissed him and for future reference, please, kiss the guys on stage. Yes it may not feel right, but you get used to it and its the professional thing to do- especially if you get an audience response like that. Actually fancying the guy you're working with is a lucky bonus! What play were you doing?
AnyHoo, So you like him, and you had this perfect kiss? Well, don't worry about the fact that he's going with your friend to this dance- don't interrupt that, it;d just be mean. Go with someone else for now, because in the long run it doesn't matter. But for the rest of the time...You have two options.
OPTION 1) (Difficult but most recommended) Play "Hard to get". This means stop ignoring him! Start by those little conversations. Texting- be a friend! Smile in the corridors. Its Flirting, (read those teen magazines. Its cringy but it works), flirting, hinting that you like him but leaving him to guess whether you really do or not. One minute you're hot, the next, cold. Look pretty and don't act at all bitchy though. Keep him interested in you and the wondering will keep him thinking about you and eventually liking you back. Welcome to teenagehood- the time to practice the dating game!
Option 2)Be his friend, and build up to a confession. Tell him all you've said here about your feelings for him- I mean, what have you got to lose really? Or if you want, get a friend to "accidentally" spill your secret crush. Trust me, whether he already likes you or not, just knowing exactly which cute girl has a crush on him will get him thinking about her! He may even feel jealous of anyone you dance with- "Wait a minute, why is she with him when she's into me?" etc. etc.
If it doesn't work, have no shame! you're an actress- BE CONFIDENT. If he really doesn't go for you don't worry. Pick yourself up and dust off. His loss. At 8th grade there really is a future of surely much hotter guys falling at your feet ahead xD... sorry for the essay! Hope it helps.
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