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how can i make myself (as a guy) cum?
I really want to make myself (as a guy) squirt. I heard it feels REALLY GOOD.
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If you have not entered puberty you may not be physically able to shoot yet. IF you have entered puberty and are masturbating you should be able to ejaculate.
Go on the web and type into a search engine "Male Masturbation and or how do males masturbate." These will return information on how to masturbate properly. Find a site that gives you the information that you can follow then follow the information given. I would suggest you do so in the privacy of your bedroom with the door closed and locked if possible so that you are not disturbed or intruded upon.
Masturbation is normal and according to recent surveys 85% of us do so. In a family of 4 this means 3.4 of those in the household masturbate. This could mean you and your parents as well as possibly your sibling.
As a parent we tell our children not to masturbate, that its dirty to do so. We are being hypercritical for saying so as most of us do so as part of foreplay prior to sex. The reason we say this to our children is that we feel masturbation leads to wanting the real thing. At your age having sex with a girl can lead to a pregnancy that should not be and you are not prepared for. The flip side of this is that masturbation is also a good substitute for the real thing so go ahead and masturbate. Just do so in private where you cannot be intruded upon.
Now if you are going through puberty, are masturbating properly and still cannot ejaculate. Then you may have a problem that needs a doctors attention. Don't panic, if you are over 14 there is a federal law that gives you absolute medical confidentiality concerning your reproductive system. This law is called HIPPA.
Under this law as long as you are 14 years of age or older you do not need parental permission to see a doctor for anything related to your reproductive system. This problem would qualify under HIPPA.
You could make an appointment, see the doctor, be examined and treated; ask any questions you may have, all without your parents knowledge or consent. You parents cannot see these medical records without you written consent to the doctor nor can the doctor or any of the staff tell you parents why you saw or were treated by the doctor. Your parents can no longer be in the examination room with you without your permission under this law. All you need to say to the doctor if a parent is with you is you invoke your rights under HIPPA.
Congress passed this law was written not to give teenagers license to have sex. They passed this law so that teenagers would seek medical attention for problems with their reproductive system they may be too embarrassed to go to their parents with and so you can be totally open with the doctor so the doctor can properly treat you.
Under this law you have total control of the confidentiality of the medical records for any doctors visit having anything to do with your reproductive health.
So if for some reason you are old enough to be ejaculating, and at 14 you should be. If after finding out how to properly masturbate you still do not ejaculate. My advice is to see a Urologist as this is the doctor that specializes in this area of medicine.
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I will assume that you already know how to bring yourself to orgasm by masturbation using your hand.
Since you used the word squirt, likely you want to know how to shoot your ejaculate.
When you go pee, force yourself to stop mid stream and hold it for 30 seconds and then go again, keep doing this the whole time you pee. This will help you build up a muscle called your kegel. At first, you may discover only being able to slow your stream a bit, or you dribble some, but with constant practice, after a little while you will be able to control this muscle better and use it at the right moment to shoot farther.
And then heres an article on how to shoot further.
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While it's an interesting visualize effect and perhaps a guy gets some pride out of it as well as personal enjoyment, if you are already into strengthening your muscles and abilities for the purpose of shooting, which really only serves to bring you pleasure, may I suggest that you focus as well, or even more, on learning how to achieve multiple orgasms. This next article tells how.
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Once you have learned how to achieve splitting the two functions of orgasm and cumming so they don't occur at the same time, you will be able to pleasure a female longer. Most guys end up done and needing time to recharge while the female got no where near enjoying any pleasure herself. When young guys recharge quickly. This ability drops rather fast as you get older. So if the guy doesn't know how to hold his ejaculation off and have several orgasms first, making sure the female is satisfied, and get her permission to cum, he will be more desireable as a lover. If you are a young teen, I suggest you wait a while on the pleasing a female until you are older.
As a female, I can say that having experienced several different men that know how to hold off their ejaculation, it is very arousing to feel them squeezing their pc muscles while inside, the sensation is of the penis pulsing, and this is done while still inside the vagina rather than while still in training where the guy has to pull out as in the article. So if you're gonna work on the pc muscles, have a double purpose accomplishment to focus on, just slightly different ways to handle each scenerio. Dont limit yourself to becoming just a shooting pro.
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