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Secret date?


Question Posted Wednesday January 15 2014, 9:42 am

So this is urgent, this Saturday I'm going on a "date" but I prefer to call it as a hangout friendly date. My crush asked me out and my parents are going to drop me by where we're going to meet. I'm in the 7th grade, but like I said I call it as a friendly date. I know I'm too young to date. But can you give me some excuses so I could go alone? And not be dropped off? Help! I don't want them to know I'm going on a "date". Please help me!

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Razhie answered Thursday January 16 2014, 5:03 am:
I actually don't think you are too young to hang out with your crush one-on-one, in a 'friendly date' kind of situation.

But here's what you are too young to do: Lie to your parents about it.

If your parents wont let you date, that sucks, but you are young enough you need to respect that. Even if you and I disagree, they are your parents are right now that's a rule they get to make.

You should be honest with your parents about what you are doing. Frankly, you should always be honest with your family, and when your older, with your friends and roommates, about who you are dating and when. That's just part of basic safety, and making sure you have people to turn too if (God forbid) something should go wrong.

Yes, it's embarrassing and awkward, but your relationship with your parents (and any relationship you might have with any boy) will be healthier and happier in the long run if you are honest and upfront with your parents about what is going on.

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