Hi, I'm fourteen girl and I'm tired of everyone treating me different. No body will tell me what's wrong with me and I'm tired of it.. everyone treats me like I'm from another planet.. I cry every day about this because I'm so confused. I don't know what to do. I have terrible social skills&&i have no friends. I have no one, no one seems to understands what I'm going thru. I tried talking to my family, and they only made it worse. I've considered harming myself because everyone seems to think different of me. People stare at me, punch&kick me. A girl in my class(she hardly knows anything about me) and she said, it's what I focus on. This may sound stupid, but I feel like everyone knows something about me that I don't even know. Please, please, tell me what's wrong with me? It's driving me nuts!!!!! Advice is much appreciated!! Thanks in advance.
If you have a lot of anxiety and want to physically harm yourself than that's a red flag. The same goes with no social skills/life. You aren't "nuts" but do need to have mental-health professionals evaluate the situation because you aren't functioning normally and help you overcome this. It's really the only logical step you can take.
I don't know why others have kicked or bullied you but do tell adults about it and defend yourself as that's what's best. If bullies see you aren't someone they can physically or mentally challenge than they move on gradually. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
Godsangel answered Sunday January 5 2014, 5:56 pm: Everyone on this Earth has talent. You have tons of it hidden inside you that you need to find. Find your talents and use them, people will love you. Im the same age as you and I know how you feel. You have something hidden deep in you that you need to find and it will make you look/act more like you. Use that talent. Your a hero to me because you've never cut yourself and nether have I, but I've been throuh so much and never have I once. So there is nothing wrong with you. Your my hero! :) [ Godsangel's advice column | Ask Godsangel A Question ]
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