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sex gone wrong
it started out my boyfriend bought condoms from a store he them came to my house and we had sex a few days later i had cuts and bumps down there! And i went to the doctor and im waiting on test results but i had to tell my mom i had sex she was mad but said not to tell my dad so i didnt but in the same week my boyfriends parents found out and made me tell my dad and now i cant see my boyfriend and honestly are year is in one day i love him and dont know what to do help me please
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If you are under legal age and still living under your parents roof, what they say goes and you will have to comply. Depending on what country or what state you live in, the legal age of consent for sex can vary a bit, for most it is 18 but it can be as early as 16 in the US. If you are of the age of consent, but live under parents roof and are financially supported by them, fair or not, their rules take precedence in their house. It doesnt help when you have feelings for a boyfriend and can't see him. Life is hard sometimes. Would you be allowed to Skype or chat on computer or send him mail, on FB, instagram or email? It might be your only way to have contact with him? Check with the parents.
As for cuts and bumps, condoms do not cut skin, only sharp objects, even edges of fingernails can. I am guessing that most likely you were dry and the condom dry and no lubrication was used, or not enough, so there was some dragging and pulling on the tender skin down there which caused some tears...thats nothing to worry about, can happen from time to time with couples who've been together for years, and it heals fine on its own. Its something small like paper cuts on the finger. The bumps could indicate an allergic reaction, like a rash to the latex of the condom. If you have latex allergies and experience this again once you are of age and on your own, then please don't use condoms for birth control but get on the pill instead.
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