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Hi again! Haha. Well I took some of your advice by asking Kenneth about what was up. I actually was talking to another guy who was my ex. He had told me he broke up with his girlfriend, and I was willing to give it another try. But then as he dropped me off at work around seven, he said "we'll I'm going to pick up Kayla. Ill be here at ten." And I asked "Kayla?" And he said "my girlfriend." I was shocked because we had been holding hands and kissing and what not. I was telling my friend Taylor and Kenneth about it after he left. After getting off work at ten, which Kenneth got off at around ten thirty, kody had not showed up to get me. I walked outside to call himC and Kenneth walked out towards his car and sad "Did he not show up?" I said no, and he stopped and turned around and said "I'm gonna run to my dads. Ill swing back by here to see if he got you." Kody showed up right when Kenneth did, and I told kody to go back to his girlfriend and I ran out and sped off with Kenneth. He didn't take me straight home either, we drove around talking for a good hour. I asked him "Are you interested in me?" And he hesitated a little and then said "sort of." He gave me his number, (which what Zach gave me really was his number, I checked.) so I'm wondering what I do now. I cleared up all the rumors, and talked to him outside work. Should I wait a few days and text him?
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Hi Hon, the site was down for me, couldn't access the column or I'd have answered sooner.
If Kenneth can admit to being 'sort of' interested in you, it's probably that he can more easily admit to being 'interested in getting to know you so he can discover if he has a real interest in you.Talking for an hour was a good start. He wouldn't do that if not interested, so if he enjoyed that, he should enjoy more of getting to know you. So if he hasn't contacted you first, (assuming he also has your number) by now, go ahead and text him. I don't know if he will still see a need to call if he see's you at work so you might want to have a talk to know what are the best times for you to text or call him where you won't be interrupting his schedule. I would've asked at the time I was handed a guys number by him. But it can be asked any time.
Since he seems to be the shy type, he will need the encouragement and the compliments and a sense of knowing that "your hearing from him" is needed. A guy likes to feel needed and will blossom under encouragement. So be sure to say somewhere along the line something about the effect that hearing his voice has on you, and be truthful, dont say stuff to encourage that arent quite true. There's one guy I dated and my husband who had voices like those of male dj's the voices on the radio. There is a calming, peaceful aspect to them, something mesmerizing even hypnotic in the effect of the voice on me. And while others dont sound bad, just lack that effect.
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