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What about the crust?
Okay, thank you for answering my question about the vaginal discharge, it was REALLY helpful. But what about the crusty stuff? You know, when the discharge dries up in your panties and leaves it all crusty-like? My mom, and older sister has even given me a few "ew"s because of it , what would he think when he pulls down my panties and sees crusty stuff ?
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I got a thick layer of crusty stuff too. It happens, either start wearing pantiliners and put a fresh liner on before going out with him or put on a fresh pair of pantys.
I assume the real problem here is with your mom and sisters reaction. Perhaps they were teasing you. That wasn't cool at all if they were. Even if they were serious, I want you to know, that No two females in the same family are going to be exact duplicates of each other. You could end up having larger breasts than your own mom, and have a higher libido than your sister ever will have. Who knows? The reaction in my opinion is kinda immature. This is a natural body action. The amount isn't an issue. The only problem is if you are having itching, soreness or a really bad odor from your private area. If mom and sis are so uptight and uncomfortable with anything of a sexual or reproductive nature, I guess you stick with writing here or when in-person help is needed like for birth control, talk to the people at Planned Parenthood. They will see teens for infections like yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis but mostly are there for any sexual related support including providing condoms or birth control for the girls. You don't want to see them for the first time because you became pregnant.
I will say that I remember having a greater amount of build up of crusty stuff by the end of each day when I was a teen than I had when I was in my twenties and older. You may produce more cleaning fluid than others and need to change pantiliners several times a day, much easier than actually changing panties while at school. Your bodies natural cleansing will be there all your life. I am now in menopause, no period but my system still self cleans just fine but since the need is less with not having a period, the amount of fluid is a lot lot less.
If you learn to be comfortable about this part of you, then any boyfriend who ends up your sex partner will be too. If he asks, what is that? You get to teach him. Oh, well the vaginal area is a marvelous creation, it is self cleaning, its ongoing all day every day so that it is always as clean as possible. This is a fluid my body creates to rinse out my vagina and it collects on the panty/pantyliner. This is normal. If he asks anything more, answer just what you know or say, thats a good question, lets find a computer and look that up together, thats one of the most special things you can do with a guy, to research and look up sexuality related stuff and learn together. I know it sounds awkward to be talking about stuff like this with a guy but someday they will be married and see when the wife has her period, when she leaked past her pads and stained the sheets and mattress, this is all normal stuff about a female, not to be shunned but society has conditioned many to be ashamed to talk about it. I was shy too at your age and couldn't even say the word sex let alone talk with a guy about it. But at some point you and he are going to have to be comfortable discussing it, setting boundaries and rules and of course learning more when you are ready. A person can't have a good, happy sexual relationship without talking on the subject. Anytime you have any sexual related stuff you need to talk to a female about, I'm here dear.
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