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Does vaginal discharge affect sex?
Okay, so i'm a 14 year old virgin (im not thinking about having sex anytime soon but I would still like to know) & i have vaginal discharge everyday! I understand that this is normal - i have no foul smell or weird color- but what about when i'm ready to lose my virginity? I don't want the boy to be creeped out or whatever, & i refuse to explain to him what it is. . But how will this discharge affect sex? Will i have to wait until it stops, and what if a boy wants to eat me out or something?
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The vaginal discharge which is part of your bodies natural cleansing system is something that slowly issues out over a 24 hr period, its not like volumes of fluid that come forth all at once, so unless a man has studied health knows all the ins and outs about reproductive systems of males and females, he is not likely to realize that a female even has a daily cleansing discharge.
The only kind of things guys know vaguely about is that girls get a period.
Teen boys having sex know so little about females that some even ask if a girl can get pregnant from anal sex. Be sure to study in books and on line your own anatomy to understand it well enough to explain to a sex partner some day. Nows the time to start studying.
If the boy you choose for your sexual partner is someone who isn't just someone to date for dating sake, but someone where both of you are mutually attracted to, turned on by, and have feelings for each other, then there is the possibility that during sex you will have another kind of vaginal discharge, a thicker mucus that oozes from the walls of the vagina when you are being aroused by kissing and foreplay, this is to prepare and lubricate the vagina for a penis to enter. When a guy is giving oral sex, eating you out, he is going to get some of this fluid from your body. That is the goal, that is the prize for guys. Its seldom a guy is repulsed by it. If he were, he'll never have a sex partner again and he'll be a lonely guy. If the female ejaculates, not all do because of how their reproductive systems developed when they were still a fetus, this ejaculating fluid is much more volume and thinner than the first one produced. This is called gushing or squirting and occurs when the female has a orgasm...maybe not with every orgasm but pretty much. So this is something that not every male has experienced in a female either because the female is incapable of squirting or the one who is able to never has because the guy doesnt know how to bring her to orgasm to produce this gushing. Take it from an older woman, through my life experiences and I am still very sexual, I'd say only about 1 out of every 5 guys is creeped out by having sex while their lady is on her period, the others actually crave it, they love it for many different reasons. Once it is known that a female is physically capable of gush/squirting, guys are desperate and will be begging that woman to be their sex partner. Men love any kind of fluid they can get from a female, they go crazy over it. Not exaggerating dear. I have experienced this. It is only when a guy is young and inexperienced and it is all new to him that he may not figure out what he likes yet or not. As for odors, there is a natural musky smell that you have. If you masturbate, you can smell it on your fingers. This is not offensive to guys, in fact it is finer than the best french perfume...another thing men go crazy over...all of them. The only odor that may not be good is a fishy odor when you are not on your period that may indicate an infection you need to see the doctor about. Even now in my 2nd marriage, I will check with the husband from time to time if I smell and taste fresh because I am more than willing to go to the bathroom and do a quick basic rinse with water (never use soap...thats a no-no) but he has never found anything to be offensive. Just take things slowly. Your sexual debut is not about losing anything but gaining experience so its not losing virginity but a sexual experience that starts with yourself, exploring yourself, masturbating and once you feel you are ready and have the right partner, being mature enough to plan and have protection. First, kissing and touching, etc.
If you still find yourself too worried and uncomfortable for interacting sexually with a boy, then don't do it. Wait until you are ready. Eventually you will be. I didnt even try in my teens. I waited til I was 20.
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