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I have one last question. So during that while spill, Zach have me Kenneth's number. Should I text him, or wait until after I work with him again and pay attention to his body language? I saw him tonight briefly. I went to McDonald's with a friend, and my friend Taylor was on break (she works there also) and she said Kenneth came up to her and asked "Does destiny work this week?" And she of course said no because I'm off for the next week or so, going out of town. And he replied "oh, we'll that must suck." And I think maybe be was going to say "that sucks" but changed it so she wouldn't think he was looking forward to see me. Or he was thinking "that sucks." I have noticed a little about his body language. One night I was handing him a broom and dustpan, and he touched my hands when he took it from me. He could have just grabbed it, but he put his hands over mine. Lol, anyways, should I text him or no?
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There's no problem etiquette wise for gals making contact like that first or making the first move.
Just a thought here though...since the two have kinda been playing games with you, how do you know its really Kenneths number just because he said it is, it could be his own number. Just didn't want you to be totally unaware and shocked if thats the case when you call.
Yeah the handtouch thing is a clear sign and when you start looking for it, you will notice more.
Whether he wanted a chance to wish you Merry Christmas or can't stand the thought of not seeing you for that long, I think it would be sweet of you to call. If it's truly his number, Make it short since it's
for him too unless you call in a couple days in which case you can wish him a Happy New Year.
You might be bold enough to state at some point that whether he wanted Zach to give you the number or Zach did it on his own, the fact that you are calling means you have a genuine interest in him and getting to know him better. He may feel freer to talk without Zach or other coworkers looking over his shoulder. Young people tend to be so self conscious of what others will think if they are interested or start dating and it really shouldn't be that way. Instead of that, he may be somewhat shy or it's his first real crush so he feels awkward and unexperienced. Then theres also a chance he did date once and the girl broke his heart so he's a bit gunshy this time around with you.
If it ends up to not be his number, I think you can still make it work. When you see him again, show him the paper with the number on it and tell him that Zach gave it to you saying it was Kenneths number. And you had wanted to wish him a Merry Christmas since you were off on vacation and wouldn't see it so you called and was disappointed to find out it was Zach's number.
And then, "While I'm at it, may I have your real number so we can keep in touch on days we're not both working, and here is mine for you to call me too." Or say some version of these in your own words. The choice of words should convey like these that you have a genuine interest in him, not Zach or anyone else. And Merry Christmas to you dear. Don't feel bad to need to write again, guys are sometimes really hard to understand.
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