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No contact part 4 i think


Question Posted Monday December 23 2013, 8:57 am

Yesteray i freaked out. I asked him to hang out tomorrow and hes like im busy the next three days for christmas parties with the family. Then i asked him i theres time before the parties and thats where he drew the line. He told me that i was pushing the boundaries that he was giving me a chance to hang out even though he really didnt want to but i had pushed the boundaries and now he doesnt even think he wants to hang out anymore. And then he told me to stop thinkin. ABout myself for once especially before i speak. And he ust plain left. He didnt reply and didnt look at the messages i sent him telling im sorry. Im scared that this was te last straw for him. I dont know what to do i hate myself right now for messing ip my last chance. Whats happening.. And what can i do..

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lightoftruth answered Monday December 23 2013, 9:01 pm:
Just give him space. You already knew that you guys were on edge, so trying to push him for more just makes it worse.
So just don't talk to him, don't keep messaging him. Just give him time off and do other things to keep your mind off him for the time being.
You'll probably be able to talk to him eventually, but not anytime soon without pissing him off again.

No guy wants a girlfriend who is pushy. So you're not making yourself look good at all and you're not respecting how he feels and you are only caring about how you feel and what you want, not what he wants.

So right now, you need to be respectful and give him his space.

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