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No contact?
Its just like we go to different schools andi dont even see him around my neighborhood much because he is pretty far. I dont know its just he once told me that he doesnt care if we talk or not because he can just easily ignore me... And especially with that girl he laid his head on makes me feel insecure and possesive. And i know that when that girl asked him out to homecoming with her his best friends helped her. Because they were all in a group of friends from 9th grade to 12th. So irs like maybe his friends are supporting her instead of convincing him to look at the rbight side of things with me.. I never even met his friends because my parents didnt let me go out much too.. Its been three months already what if not talking to him makes him think that ive trying to move on and that hed be happy tha im not there to annoy him. Im just scared im sorry i didnt take your advice of the nocontatc thing but its winter break too so i wanted to take advantage of the free time to see him to see if theres hope or anything.. Its just i dont know sorry im just desperate i guess. Like i can survive without him if i dont think about it but i just miss him and his love that he once held for me and how i was able to make him happy in his bad times. I dont understand how he isnt feelings like how i feel. I mean like i opened ip to him about my darkest secret and he told me his too and we comforted each other and he told me he would never break up with me as long asi try to keep our relationship together he will try too. I just dont know whats going on. He seems like his living his life with friends and even that girls flirting and even her comfort. I dont know its just why isnt he feeling like he lost someone that loves him an that wants to build a better relationship.. Three months have passed already and i don t know what to do!
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If he doesn't want to be with you, there is nothing you can do about it. It really sucks that people don't always feel the same way we do.
It's normal to feel insecure and upset about the other girl. But I really didn't understand the whole, "What if not talking to him makes him think that I've been trying to move on and that he'd be happy that I'm not there to annoy him." Wouldn't anyone be happy that they're not there to annoy them?
Feelings change. You can't make people feel certain things for you. I think this might be one of the, "Don't be sad that it's over, smile because it happened" kind of situation.
Even if things don't work out between the two of you, be grateful that you had this experience with him.
I know you love him and want him back, but talking to him more with push him away and want to talk to the other girl. So give yourself more space from him.
Go out with your friends, have a good time, and he'll be jealous that you're happy without him. And hey, you might even meet a guy who's ten times better than a guy who doesn't even know what he wants. You don't want to waste your time with people like that.
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