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Confused with who I should go for?
Hi, I am a sixteen year old girl, and I am in big need of some advice! I work at McDonald's, where I met this guy I began to like. I didn't tell anyone about me liking him, then one day he steeped out in front of me and asked "do I have a hance with you?" I told him yes and walked away. Since then his friend Zach which we also work with tried to get us to go on a date. Zach made me believe it was him wanting to know, but it was actually all Zach. Now he and the whole store think I'm obsessed with him for some reason! I have no clue whyC because that whole thing didn't even involve me. It was all Zach. The night we were supposed to "go out." I had a fiend of mine come get me from work and we hooked up. (For the record that was the only time I've done that, I'm not skanky) and Kenneth looked upset when I left with him. After I left he also asked my friends if I'd left. What is going on with this situation? In so confused and have no idea what to do now.
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So ken is the one who first asked if he has a chance with you? But since then it was his friend Zach talking to you on Kens behalf? Why? Did you ever wonder, cus if Ken had enough guts to ask you that first question, even if shy he should have been able to talk to you about anything else.
Zach was playing games with you? Making it appear it was Ken asking the question when it was really Zach who wanted to know? Okay, if so, how do you know that for sure? Are you guessing? Did you ever ask, "if Ken wants to know, why doesn't he ask himself? He's talked to me before."
I don't know who the "He's are in the rest of your story. Who thinks you're obsessed with him? Zach or Ken. And the night you were supposed to go out (with who Ken or Zach) a friend from work gave you a ride home (was it Zach or a third person) you hooked up?
You may not be skanky but you need to ask yourself why you felt so drawn to even go that far with someone who just gave you a ride home. Unless....Is this guy you hooked up with the original person you were talking about that is the 'guy you began to like' instead of Ken? If you answered yes to Ken's question, and he is assuming you are leaving on a date with a guy from the work location, I can see how he would have reason to be upset if your yes meant you were interested in him. Why leave with another guy. Perhaps this male friend from work you left with and hooked up with is a player who has been telling all the guys there that he likes what he sees when he looks at you and is gonna try and see if he can sample any of it, and then go on to the next girl that turns his head.
I know it sounds clear in your mind in the telling dear but without a clearer who are the "he's" in the rest of story, I am as confused as you. Replace every him and he with a name or just an initial is sufficiant, K, Z and ? and it may help me to understand what your situation is. Otherwise I would only be guessing. Thank-you dear
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