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Question Posted Saturday December 21 2013, 9:12 pm

Ive been keeping my contact with him at a minimum.. I dont know its hard to go with the full no contact method because i think hes moved on or well trying to.. I asked him to go hang out with me yesterday and he asked me why do you want to go on saturday we have the entire winter break. Doe that mean he's okay with going out with me? Because a bit after that i said how its important and he disagreed saying that its important to me not him. /: i dont know. UGH its like i want him back... Or at least see him and see if theres any hope left if theres any feelings left for me eithin him because of how i previously mentioned that in person he is a more different person. In person he is more attentive and like the last two times we hung out he kissed me and we came intimate so idk i hope that it may happen again and that i can finally ask him to be mines once again. Is this a good choice? Ive waited like three months and its painful /: its like weve been theough so much together what can i do to rekindle our love and his addiction for me?

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lightoftruth answered Saturday December 21 2013, 9:35 pm:
I'm still gonna go with waiting. I know that it sucks and it's so hard to resist even talking to him. I totally get it but you need to show him that you're worth it. Right now, all you are showing him is that you can't handle being alone and that he can have you any time he wanted. In fact, he can be intimate with you without even having the relationship.

I know it's hard to just go with no contact at all with him. If you think that he's moved on or is trying to move on, then contacting him and trying to get him back will most likely make him move on faster.
Some relationships need long breaks like that to realize how much they miss each other. He won't miss you when you're talking to him, trying to hang out with him, and being intimate with him.

You can't make someone love you. But this advice will probably be the closest you can get to possibly grabbing his attention again.
-Don't talk to him, no contact at all. If he contacts you, awesome, keep the conversation short.
-Dress your best. Whenever you might run into him, wear something that makes you feel and look good. Nothing too revealing or tight. Something that has the mixture of sweet and sexy and cute and classy.
-If you wear make up, make it look extra nice. Don't overdo it though or cake it on. Make it look natural and pretty.

If you give it time, things should be better than how it is now.

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