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Vaginal Bleeding After Fingering?
Hey you guys, I'm a seventeen year old female and I want to know is it normal to bleed after being fingered?
My boyfriend has been fingering me recently, and I've noticed that I'd bleed afterwards. The first time was about three weeks ago, and after he finished, he pulled out his fingers and they were covered with blood. He claimed that he popped my cherry. I left it at that, figuring that I'd never truly popped it on my own.
The next time he did it, I was almost on my period, so I figured that it just came early.
However, the last time he fingered me, he pulled out his fingers and there was a lot of blood on them. And I mean by a LOT. I was worried that I had internal bleeding and I'd damaged something. It was truly embarrassing and worrisome. It didn't seem like normal period blood, but the bright "I've cut something" blood. It's been two days since he's fingered me, and I'm still seeing spotting, and gooey brown blood/vaginal discharge.
It doesn't hurt when he fingers me, except I may feel a quick, sharp pain if he goes too deep, too fast.
Before my boyfriend started fingering me, I wouldn't experience any type of bleed if I fingered myself, or even when I was with different partners and they did so for me. Now, when I finger myself, I experience slight bleeding.
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There may be a couple of things going on here. He may have torn your Hymen but not ruptured or detached it. If so every time he fingers you he tears it a little more.
He may be scrapping or tearing your vaginal walls with a jagged fingernail or a rough callous. Check his nails and if they are long or jagged give him a manicure before he fingers you trimming back his nails and smoothing his callouses.
If there is nothing wrong with his fingers or nails then my first thoughts are possible. My suggestion then would be you see your GYN and let the GYN finish the removal of your HYMEN. The GYN will also upon examination find out the real cause of the problem and correct it for you.
I am not a doctor and even if I was without being able to examine you I can only make an educated guess at the problem. It is in your reproductive health's best interest to see a GYN and see what the problem is. There is no reason to be embarrassed with the doctor for he or she has seen this and more during their practice.
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