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seeking advice after first semester of college
i just finished my first semester of college. things are okay and even mildly good but very much a disappiontment from what i was expecting and i am definately not living the college expereince everyone else seems to be having. i am not a weirdo i promise. i just happen to be a little shy around people i dont know and get intimidated easily. i have neveer been in a situation before where i had to make friends from scratch and am not very good at it. any advice on how to not awkwardly introduce yourself to people who you have seen around but are not friends with, how to become better friends with people you are aquitences with, how to make small talk with people just in general tips on how to be a friendlier person. also anyone who is older than a college freshman and wants to share some insight on their thoughts first semester vs. later into thier experience.
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Starting college is a whole new experience for everyone. Even if you've attended several schools up to that point, college is different in that it's more of a step into adulthood than any other level of education.
As an individual who is on the introverted side myself, I understand the situation you are facing in regard to meeting and making new friends.
Some people come by this easier and a little more naturally than others. But it's just fine if you're not one of them.
When I was in college, one of the best ways to meet people and make friends was to get involved in activities around the school. For example, I was a journalism major so I wrote for the school newspaper. In your case you can apply it to anything that interests you or may be related to your schooling.
If you are anxious about literally approaching people, it might not be a bad idea to talk to a social skills coach. They can work wonders for people.
It also seems like that those who project a positive disposition naturally tend to attract others. So, if you follow the old cliché and "put on a happy face" people might be more likely to approach you and you won't have to worry as much about that part.
Enjoy your college journey.
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