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beating her at her own game - But how
HI Natalka , you were great ,honestly I hadn't got suh a good psychoanalysis with such little info .let me put my post again and some recent developments and your true advise.as I said before ;
hi we are both married . I have feelings for her but she said no. Inspite of tis she accepts gifts from me .and I have touched her breasts and kissed on her neck .I always think of her but she never reciprocate .I always pay for dinners but she never did bring me anything.now the confusing part is she says she didn't tell anyone that she is meeting me .she let me kissed her on her lips but then got grumpy .any good aadvise will be welcomed
NOw we did meet few times again but in public venues. I texted her to meet me but she got angry saying she is busy .I ended the text with taking her for dinner. Now natalka I want to approach her again after no contact for at least one month and just sending her a new year Christmas card.is it okay to approach her like that or I am wasting my one month NC challenge .I don't care about other peoples opinion but I do take your opinion very genuinely .Please help me to navigate this .
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Hi, it's up to you really. It depends whether you want to be treated like that [she will always use you(when she feels like seeing you she will and when she doesn't want to see you she wont)basically she's in control/sets out all the cards]. You need to ask yourself whether you can put up with that.
Personally (but that's just my opinion) I think that no one deserves to be treated like she's treating you. So you could try talking to her about it (ask her openly what's her game/maybe set out some of your rules). If she ignores the conversation then it means that she'll just continue to use you.
If I were you (that's just me again) I would find myself someone else but as I said before it is completely your decision.
If you have any more questions feel free to contact me.
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