So i was dating this girl. we broke up. because i was into someone else. then she told me she wanted to get back together. i still love her. but i like someone else. i don't know how to tell her that i want to move on. i know if i tell her she'll be heart broken. but i know pretending to love someone when you don't is bad to. help? :c
I think being honest is the best thing to do. You should make it clear that you don't want to be with her anymore.
So just tell her that the time you spent apart gave you a chance to reflect and grow. Tell her she will always have a special place in your heart, but that your life has grown in a different direction.
I think that will be the least hurtful way. No matter how you say it, though, it will hurt. But you shouldn't have to pretend to love someone just to make them happy.
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