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that guy that i work with...
Hey dragonfly, I'm sorry to be sending you another message. but i started to not worry about this guy so much ( the one that taught me the register at work ive asked about before). i texted him a couple days ago but he neverr replied so i just kind of left it. well yesterday he came in to work over night and when he pulled into the parking lot i was sitting in my car with my door open because i was on break. he parked across from me then started flashing his brights at me and messing around then he went inside. well once inside i got scared cause one of the doors started opening and closing by itself so i was looking for the manager and i found that guy first. i told him what happened and he said it usually does that then offered to turn it off for me so i quit being scared so we walked to the front end and he turned it off for me. well a few hours later i went to tell the manager i was ready to go home cause it was my time to leave and the guy said "youre going home already?" and the manager said "ya shes been here since earlier" and then the guy looked straight at me and said "i'll miss you" and i just smiled and said "uhuh i know you will" and walked away. he said this in front of me another girl the manager and another guy. he usually talks to me in front of people but that was the first time he said something like that. and he just said it like it was nothing but it wasn't rude or sarcastic. im so confused. why did he all of a sudden say something like that and in front of 3 other people? a couple times i have told him dont miss me too much. but we usually use eachothers lines against eachother he could have told me not to miss him but he just flat out said ill miss you when i didnt even say anything to him except that i was going home already. is this guy complicated or am i making it complicated. i over think everything and it annoys and bugs me. thats why i had to ask you about it cause you are really smart. thankyou again in advance :)
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It could be nothing more than his style of flirting and not have any other meaning behind it.
Here's a thought, for some folks, going to work can be a drag, you can always think of places you'd rather be so why not make work more pleasant by spicing it up with flirting. Of course, you still will choose as your target someone who is your style rather than someone you usually don't have for friends.
It could be that and nothing more. He seems nice so far. If I am remembering right, neither of you have had much in depth conversations, the kinds that help give you insight into the character of a person to know whether there is enough there for a relationship of some sort away from work.
So my suggestion is to offer an invite to him to join you doing something or going somewhere. If you feel awkward making the invite, then say that you don't like doing stuff alone, its not as fun and your friends can't go. Would he be willing?
Some guys are brave enough to flirt but not to making the next step. If he's only into being extra friendly at work just to liven up the time he's there, you should know pretty quickly by his response. If he's truly interested in getting to know you better and start dating, he'll find a way to accept your invite or at least make a date for another event or another time with you.
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