bleeding after your partner fingered you and your a virgin
Question Posted Sunday November 24 2013, 3:38 am
Im 19 now but i was sexually active when i was 15. Ive only had sex with one guy i wasnt sexually active for almost 1 and a half years and i have a new boyfriend he fingered me and almost 24 hours later i was bleeding and ive already had my period he has really short nails and i was wet. Is it possible that my last partner didnt pop my cherry.?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Dragonflymagic answered Sunday November 24 2013, 9:27 pm: It could be as simple as the 2nd guy being larger than the first guy and the hymen had more stretching to do.
The hymen isn't a skin that totally covers the vaginal opening as one may think so theres no popping to do.
The best visual I've seen is a gal use an empty toilet paper roll, hold a stocking over the end to represent the hymen and then cut a smaller hole with scissors in the center of the part of stocking covering the opening of the toilet paper tube. In inserting anything into the tube, nothing is stopped because of the remaining stocking, the stocking stretches to accomodate whatever is being inserted, same as the hymen does. If it is stretched faster than it has time to loosen up and stretch to a new size, it can tear and bleed. Its been said that widowed wives who went years before finding another man, found their hymen had shrunk up tighter again. Its nothing to worry about. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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