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Got back together, things aren't the same?
Before our breakup, things were great. We would talk everyday, when I had a problem, he was right there for me and vice versa. We said "I love you" everyday, it was just perfect.
One day I got really depressed, and I do stupid things....really stupid...
So, I broke up with him for what I thought was good reasons, but now they are nothing. He didn't get over us for like 2 months or so.
Now, I made my move to get him back, I played our song and asked him. He was "happy" when we got back together. We said "I love you" the first day...but...well things aren't the same.
Now, we don't talk everyday, hes not really there for me. When I text him, he takes FOREVER to respond, or doesn't even respond at all. It's really killing me, what should I do? I have strong feelings for him, and I told him I didn't wanna lose him, and he agreed but, what should I do?
Please help!
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I agree with Zane. You hurt him and it took him a long time to get over you.
You see people who get back into a relationship with the same person but they don't really trust them or try to get too attached because they don't want to get hurt again. It seems like this is the case.
How long have you guys been back together? If it hasn't been too long, then give it time and show him you care about him and that he can trust you.
If it's been awhile and you've been good to him. Then sit him down and talk to him. Tell him how you've been feeling, don't blame him or anything but express that this, this and this is what you need.
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You hurt him
Once you go your separate ways or even take a break in a relationship it's pretty much over and done with it. Being separated can really cause some serious damage in a relationship if you were to get back together with someone.
You said it took him 2 months to get over you, Which indicates that you both were separated for a little while. My wild guess is that over a period of time he has learned that he does not need to be in a relationship to survive and therefore he has mentally moved on from you. This guy may even started to talking to someone else in the meantime or perhaps what would make perfect sense considering he isn't quick to respond, He may just clearly be moving on and is passing on the revenge. Unfortunately, This would be a very childish thing as two wrongs don't make a right but maybe he realized after he took you back that he doesn't really want to be in a relationship with you.
You broke up with him, You ended it for whatever reasons it may have been, He is over you. Sometimes when someone hurts somebody it just changes everything. At this point, There isn't much you can do. You cannot bribe him or talk your way into getting him back because his heart just isn't into it anymore.
You need to just let him go
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